Why he might not be in the mood tonight
This is one of the major reasons why married couple have issues in relationships. The sexual needs of a partner are not met by reasons like I’m not in the mood tonight or I’m a having an headache or other reasons.
Its might sound weird for a man to turn down a sexual advance from their women but it does happen. Its very normal for him not to be in the mood.
Today we are going to look at some of the reasons why he might not be in the mood.
- Fatigue
Hes just tired, your might have just had a long day at work and hes drained. You do not expect him to be in the mood for sex when hes really exhausted.
At one point or the other, every ones gets tired to do anything. The only solution to this is to just let him to rest, its nothing personal.
2. Hes unfaithful
The other reason is he might be unfaithful to you.
He might have passed by his side chics place before coming home to you, it may be unpleasant to hear that but its the sad reality. This just simply mean s that his sexual needs are met while you are there waiting.
If you are aware of this, you might want to talk about that to find a solution to the problem.
3. Unresolved issues in the relationship
You might be having unresolved issues in your relationship that can actually make him keep of. A perfect example is like when you have just had a major argument. This doesn’t mean that the relationship is over but he might just need time to readjust and think things through.
The solution to this is sort out all the impending issues that you might have.
4. Hes stressed out
When people are stressed out, they have different ways of dealing with it. Some people eat a lot of food, go on a shopping spree other keep to themselves.
If you man has something stressing him, he might just tell you that he is not in the mood. so if you are observant enough, you might want to try to help him solve whatever he is going through. That’s called being a supportive partner.
So the sooner you sort out that the better it is for your sex life.
5. Fear
This might sound interesting but just as some ladies have body issues, so do men. They may not say it out loud but some guys have body issues.
Since they have body issues, they might shy away from engaging in activities where they need to undress.
The solution to this is constantly reminding your man that he is handsome no matter what, this will boost his ego and he might stop getting scared of being naked.
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