– Relationships only makes sense when the men in them are able to candidly define the relationship without much difficulties. However, we have this breed of men who wants to enjoy everything attached to relationships and then leave you high and dry. Here is how to spot these men.
Many of us have fallen for the tricks of a time-waster. They worm their way into our lives, sweep us off our feet and then drop us at the subtle sign of commitment.
Many women can attest to the fact that they have had to wait on a man who is taking his sweet time to define the relationship, a lot of women even wait for years.
Instead of waiting up on a man who is taking his sweet time to define a relationship, there might actually be better men out there just waiting to be given an opportunity, so what is it going to be ladies?
Below are some of the signs that he is clearly wasting your time and you need to move on swiftly.
Flirting without action
This man will give you constant compliments, flirt with you and promise you the world. This can go on for months or even years but he’ll give you a whole lot of attention (which girls love) but not even ask you out on a date. All along, in your mind, you thought that this man was really into you and yet doesn’t do anything beyond telling you “sweet nothings”.
run for the hills when such a man comes knocking because most of the time, they do feel like they have a lot of options and you just don’t cut it for them.
Performs a disappearing act on you
Being ghosted actually sucks when it happens to you. So prince charming actually asks you out on a date after all the flirting, but then goes silent on you after hanging out.
This point only really applies to you if the date went really well, you had a lot to talk about and you didn’t want it to end. If you don’t hear from him within a few days after the date, cut him off because he wasted your time.
You always initiate the conversation
A man who truly wants a woman will pursue her, but if you’re always hitting him up more than he hits you up, he’s just not that into you. He probably likes you, maybe just not as much as you would imagine.
Contacting him first all the time may actually turn him off because it is in a man’s nature to pursue the woman. Regardless of how much you like the guy or how comfortable you are with him, let a man miss you sometimes.
If you’re seeking an exclusive relationship with a guy you’re interested in and yet he makes up excuses as to why you two can’t be together, he’s wasting your God-given time. On top of this, if he gets mad at you for wanting to define the relationship, simply walk away.
Lastly, if he says that he’s not ready for a girlfriend, he’s basically saying that he wants a girlfriend, he just doesn’t want it to be you. A man knows what he wants and goes for it.
Charline Carren is a blogger and an editor at Tech for Development. A trained Public Relations and communication specialist.
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