In Brief
– Good men actually exist and sometimes you just have to look and find them. Relationships are not that complicated.
– Some of the tips ladies can use include; being clear, confidence and being courteous
There is this notion among ladies that good men don’t exist, it’s like the earth swallowed all of them. However, as hard as it might be to admit this, they actually do exist. It all just depends on how your strategies and position yourself.
Sometimes you really do have to look as they will just find you when you are doing your thing. However, you also have to make some efforts at helping yourself.
So, if you find a guy even remotely attractive, you’ll feel a strong urge to look away when his eyes first meet yours. If you fancy him, make sure you look down, with a slight smile on your face. After a moment catch his eye again, perhaps looking a little nervous, and he’ll most likely start a conversation.
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Body language. Women also manage the whole courtship process. So a polite man won’t start romancing a girl unless she makes it clear that’s what she wants. you can give some cues to say what you want.
Be courteous. Nothing personal but ask open-ended questions that’ll take more than a few words to answer. Just chat as if you’re friends, and enjoy the moment!
Be confident, self-assured, and make it clear from the start that you’re looking for a serious relationship. Don’t be tempted to just hang out, or get sucked into some sort of friends with benefits arrangement.
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Don’t waste your time on any guy who fits into one of the high risk ‘no commitment’ categories.
Most men want to be faithful. But there are others who don’t actually like women that much and see them as trophies to be used and discarded. Guys are never serious while they’re young. And those that are still single at 35 are becoming ‘permanent bachelors.’ And it goes without saying that you shouldn’t go out with married men, no matter what they promise.
These are some of the categories of men that serious ladies should avoid at all costs.
However, all men cannot be categorized that easily. Some are just slow to get going, maybe because they lack social skills, or have been hurt by previous relationships. Sticking with one of them might be worthwhile.
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Don’t just hang out with your girlfriends, your priority is to meet men! Including making small talk with any of the promising men you meet through your work.
If an opportunity presents itself maximize on it, you never know where you’ll meet Mr Right.
Be clear. If you’re happy together after about a year, make sure he knows what you want. Because men rarely ask a girl to marry them unless they know she wants a proposal – and is planning to say ‘Yes!’
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