– Love can be patient and love can be kind. But real love, the kind of love that you fall in, isn’t like the one mentioned in the book of Corinthians. This love doesn’t care. This love can cut through your skin like a double-edged sword and leave you lifeless and broken.
With the repercussions laid bare, you need to love the right person and this is what a man who loves you will do for you, listen to you, be honest and loyal to you and give you undivided attention.
Love can be a lot of things. Love can be patient and love can be kind. But real love, the kind of love that you fall in, isn’t like the one mentioned in the book of Corinthians. This love doesn’t care. This love can cut through your skin like a double-edged sword and leave you lifeless and broken. It can be those permanent stains on your favourite dress or those deep cracks on the screen of your phone. It could feel as cold as the titanic at the bottom of a sea.
With the repercussions laid bare, you need to love the right person and this is what a man who loves you will do for you.
Listen to you
Everybody loves to be listened to even the smallest of them all. So this doesn’t only apply to the ladies. However, for a relationship to grow and you two to work as a unit, there must be communication.
Communication will only take place when you listen to each other. so, if you are with a guy who doesn’t listen to you then girl pack up and leave.
Gives you undivided attention
Every woman loves to be given some attention from their partners. This is one of the ways that some women feel loved and appreciated. However, if you are with a man who doesn’t give you his attention or every time when you are together he’s busy with other things, then you got to leave.
He is clearly showing that you are not his priority and you need to leave and get someone else who values you.
Honest and loyal
Finding honest and loyal men can be so hard and frustrating but the good news is that they still do exist on planet earth.
Have a man who is honest with you because that the way you get to grow. Get a man who can have your back when the going gets tough.
Comfortable with the weird you
We all have that weird side of us that not everyone will appreciate. A man who truly cares for you, will love you and stay by you.
If he doesn’t love the weird you then that’s a clear sign fo you to leave.
Love you when you don’t love you
Life ain’t all rosy, there are days when your path is going to be filled with more thorns and you are not going to like yourself very much.
Your man is supposed to still love you when you are unbearable. If he cant do that an sees that as a weakness, then girl run for the hills.
You need someone who will stand by you through thick and thin.
Charline Carren is a blogger and an editor at Tech for Development. A trained Public Relations and communication specialist.
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