– There are good men out there and there are also jerks. A jerk is a jerk. I will say from the outset that serving a jerk with sex like your life depends on it, washing his clothes and cooking for him, will not change him an inch. Signs that he’s a jerk includes; he’s a serial cheater, doesn’t want to meet your relatives, feeds you E-pills and never has a straight answer for anything.
Women have instincts so sharp, they can tell when their babies are being mistreated when they are away. But these sharp instincts evidently get clouded in the presence of a tall, dark, handsome dude or a short man with a big fuel guzzler.
I must admit it that there are good men out there and there are also jerks. A jerk is a jerk. I will say from the outset that serving a jerk with sex like your life depends on it, washing his clothes and cooking for him, will not change him an inch. You cant change a man who doesn’t want to change,
Ladies, how do you spot a rogue wolf from a pack of other wolves?
The serial cheater: Forgiving cheaters is what contributes to the spread of diseases, stupidity and irresponsibility. Only forgive if you are ready for the diseases.
He has no straight answer about what he does or where he lives: If he ever uses the word ‘biasharaz’ as his occupation without defining it, he is a con. If he is a broker, sales cars or is in clearing and forwarding business, he will steal from you – unless he works for an organisation whose boss or physical address you know. It would also be wise to have the contacts of the area police chief. Just in case.
If he does not treat you as an equal: Unless you want to be a doormat because he provides, don’t entertain this type. You deserve respect, dignity and fairness.
If you’ve been dating for ‘a while now,’ looking forward to marriage but he never wants to meet your relatives: Drop him, dear.
The constant snooper: He’s been checking your office mail, WhatsApp messages and phone book. He is an insecure man who can give you brain tumour and will stress you to death. A man has to be sure of himself. But please, do not cheat on him.
He can’t use a condom but feeds you e-pills like nuts: One if you become pregnant, he will relocate to God knows where. Two, he is ruining your reproductive health and will be nowhere in future when you are dealing with the consequences.
A man who sees a future with you will never feed you pills because he cares about what happens to you.
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