Days after gospel singer Nicah the Queen revealed her new Nigerian man on Instagram while on a vacation at the coast, Dr. Ofweneke has offered advice on parenting.
Taking to his Instagram account Ofweneke urged couples who sired children together and have since grown apart, that they should be able to resolve their differences for the wellbeing of the children.
“Listen,the reason why my daughters are happy is because their mum and I are friends and we have agreed that our broken marriage got nothing to do with the kids, That they can be at mum’s for as long as they wish and they can be at dad’s as long as they wish either,” he said.
“Both of you have to be selfless to make sure the kids have a clean environment away from the toxic atmosphere for them to have a happy upbringing, You don’t love that guy anymore but let the kids love their dad same you don’t love that lady anymore but let those kids love their mum, there is any truth to be known at the right time they will.”
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In previous interviews by different publications, the comedian, whose real name is Sande Bush, revealed that he and Nicah “maturely decided to have an environment where their daughters, are comfortable.
“It is one of those pages I would want to tear out of the book of my life. I am a perfectionist, so I had regrets over what I should have done. I chose to leave, but with a decision: that the next time I found myself married, I would do things differently.
“What I learned about marriage and relationships is that you cannot give what you do not have. Find happiness within yourself in order to give happiness. The other lesson was that it is never that serious. If things cannot work out even after 20 years, they cannot work out. Just leave,” he said.
The two split three years ago, according to Nicah, over domestic abuse.
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